hmm. lotsa stuff have been happening arnd me lately. especially Mr. A, who is frustrated over r/ship problems now. the overall situation was something like this. He got to know some girl in his sch thru her senior. and then started to sms each other and stuff like that, talk on the phone, and then go out on dates. they got quite close, and kinda had feelings for each other. but one day, the girl says " i've been thinking alot lately and i think we're just better off as friends." naturally, Mr A would be disappointed and depressed.
If u were Mr.A, how would u react?
if i were Mr.A, naturally i'd be devastated, depressed, and feeling emotionally drained. its the feeling of "after everything and all the feelings i've put in, is this what i get in return?" furthermore, i'll feel cheated and being led on. i'll wanna juz tell her to fuck off and die u stupid biatch. even when she smses, i'd feel reluctant to reply. on the contary, i'd be REALLY happy if she smsed me last time.
but, can u actually do that to the one whom u have feelings for? are u able to risk it all, destroy all the bridges which the 2 of u have built thru time, with "fuck off"? i dont think so. in addition, not only will u be missing her a lot, u'll be sorta "desperate".
but seriously, i dont think she's leading u on. also, i dun think she would want to see u like that too. i just think she's being rational. that she puts a lot of thought into considering. it just shows that she takes it seriously. i dont think she's taking u for granted. trust me. she still likes u. but i'm sure she has her own reasons. well, u've got 2 choices. one is to juz fuck it, or one is to wait. u decide. the 2nd outcome will be like mine. but hey, as long as u know that what u're waiting is worth waiting for, then why not? its the human emotion which makes us homo sapiens different frm animals. :)