okay lets see. today has been a really dead day. i stayed at home the whole day, trying to finish up my chem hw. darn. juz realised that i've got one whole shit load to do..sigh. :( oh well, the impt thing now is not to dwell on it, but to get it over and done with. hmm, to all couples out there. i've got a phrase for u guys. "Love is a gift, not an obligation". If u ask me, i would say that normally, most couples quarrel and break up, mainly due to them thinking that their partner should change for them. but no, that's not the case. both should change for each other, and if possible, one should take one step back. if someone loves you, take it as a life long gift, always feel grateful, never take it for granted that that gift will be with u all the time. :) yup, and ben..relax la bro. why the heck are u fretting about girls? if they come, they come. u'll find the special one in ur life, ahha..like me..took me 9 months. but it was worth it in the end. the longer u wait, the better ones u'll get. why get someone now, and regret it when someone better comes along? take things in ur stride, and cheer up. cos life's more than just girls. :)